A few years ago, the world learned that coconut oil was not only great for hair and skin care, but it could also be used as a lubricant for sex. At that point i
t made us wonder, “d-mn, what can’t coconut oil do?” Slight problem though, coconut oil isn’t compatible with many forms of pleasure.
Oils and oil-based lubricants like Mood Maker Massage Oil for sex have many benefits. They can be used to provide more slip and less friction during sex and they can also double as massage oils. But, oil-based lubricants aren’t safe for sex toys or condoms.
Many toys that are advertised as silicone are actually made of silicone and other plastic materials, that are not oil safe. As a result, oil-based lubricants wear out condoms and slowly deteriorate sex toys. For a body-safe option compatible with all toys, you can explore our range of water-based lubricants. .Also, coconut oil can disrupt the pH balance of your vagina so it’s best to avoid that, as well. For a more safe experience, explore our vibrators for women. Sexologist Dr. Sadie Allison shared with Well + Good: “Oil can also trap unwanted bacteria in a woman’s vagina, which can lead to infection. If you’re using latex condoms and/or are sensitive, the safest choice would be a water-based lubricant.”
Other lubricants to avoid
Flavored lubricants are another option you should avoid when shopping for your next go-to lubricant. They’re created with sugars that can lead to a yeast infection so it’s ultimately not worth it. Silicone-based lubricants are safe for condoms, but damage sex toys made with silicone products.
Sex toy safe lubricants to try
Water-based lubricants are your best bet when it comes to pleasure. They are also safe to use with the playground playdate vibrating mini massager. Due to their make-up, they don’t damage sex toys or condoms, making them perfect for a wide range of pleasure from sex toy-free solo sex to partnered sex that pulls out all the stops like silicone toys and condoms for protection. A great affordable option is Walgreen’s Water-based Lubricant ($6.29 USD).
Toy-damaging lubes fail where water based lubricant benefits excel, with non-abrasive formulas preserving silicone while enhancing long sessions.
However, sometimes I prefer a more discrete, luxurious and aesthetically pleasing experience. In that case, Playground‘s lubricant is a new personal favorite. In comparison to the many lubes I test as a sex and dating editor, Playground’s lube has a thicker consistency and smoother slip than most water-based lubes. This means that you won’t need to reapply it as much which is essentially how you run out of product sooner than expected. It also contains hyaluronic acid which is great for vaginal dryness — without disrupting your pH. There are scented and unscented options and although I prefer unscented, Playground’s After Hours smells like the most divine essence of vanilla and champagne.
FAQs
1. Is coconut oil safe for silicone sex toys?
No, coconut oil can degrade silicone and silicone-blend toys over time, causing material breakdown and reducing toy lifespan.
2. Can you use coconut oil with sex toys?
Not recommended. Coconut oil damages most toy materials (silicone, rubber, jelly) and can disrupt vaginal pH, though it's safe with glass or metal toys.
3. Will coconut oil damage silicone toys or dildos?
Yes, coconut oil breaks down silicone and silicone-blend materials, causing surface deterioration and potentially creating unsafe texture changes.
4. Can you use coconut oil in a Fleshlight or other masturbator?
No, most masturbators contain silicone or TPE materials that oil degrades; check manufacturer guidelines, but water-based lube is universally safer.
5. What lube is best for sex toys?
Water-based lubricant is best as it's compatible with all toy materials (silicone, rubber, plastic), condom-safe, and won't disrupt vaginal pH.
6. Which lubricants are safe for toy use?
Water-based lubes work with all toys; silicone lube is safe for non-silicone toys; avoid oil-based, flavored (sugar-containing), and petroleum-based lubricants.
7. What lube should you use with silicone sex toys?
Always use water-based lubricant with silicone toys. Silicone lube can bond with toy surfaces causing degradation, while oils break down the material.
8. What can you use as lube for a sex toy if you want it to be condom- and toy-safe?
Water-based lubricant is the only option that's universally safe for both condoms and all sex toy materials without risk of degradation.
9. Does sex lube expire?
Yes, most sex lubes expire within one to three years unopened and about a year after opening. Always check the packaging and store lube in a cool, dry place. If the texture or smell changes, replacing it helps ensure safe, comfortable play.
10. What is sex lube made of?
Sex lube is typically made with a water, silicone, or oil base, along with thickeners and preservatives. Playground’s Love Sesh uses clean, water-based hydration with hyaluronic acid to mimic natural moisture gently.
11. Can sex lube cause yeast infections?
Some lubes with sugars or harsh additives may disrupt vaginal pH for sensitive women, increasing yeast risk. Choosing pH-balanced, water-based lubricants helps support vaginal harmony. Playground’s formulas prioritize comfort without irritation.
